By Larry Priest
If a woman does not achieve full orgasm, she is deprived of the hormonal stimulants, regulators and balancers which she needs to relieve stress. Yet, she may not be aware of her need.
She doesn’t have to understand how it all works, but instinctively feels that somehow It is her husband’s fault. Even without knowing why, she may become critical of him, aware of all his faults and shortcomings, and begin to feel that he is just not good enough. It could lead to disrespect and a withdrawal of her love. Thus, the oneness and harmony God desires for their marriage is, at least in some measure, compromised, if not destroyed.
Many couples make believe things are OK, until the relationship reaches a breaking point. They need counseling but do not understand why. The counselor may not understand either. The problem they present to a counselor, is rarely the real or underlying problem. The word of God, revealed in the study of Song of Solomon, could change their lives.
Men, spending the time and effort to do things right when serving your wife’s needs results in great reward. Like everything else, doing a halfhearted, haphazard job brings disappointing results. God blesses a life of service to each other.